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There are also darker memories, dates when we mourn both people and relationships that have passed.

When loss occurs, through divorce, death, even misunderstanding – these hard dates remain painful markers of something once treasured, and now gone.

yet does not get any of the credit for the strides I or my company makes. She never has expected any credit or recognition for what she’s done for me.

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They may mark a romantic meeting, or some other sweet occasion in life.

I will always remember my engagement date; what followed is irrelevant.

In fact, the smarter you are, the more clueless you will be, and the more problems you're going to have in your dating life. Smart people spent more time on achievements than on relationships when growing up. And smart families are usually achievement-oriented. The upshot of all that achievement is that you get into a top college -- congratulations!

Once upon a day I used to be pretty smart, and believe me, I had a lock on clueless. -- and then continue doing even more of what you were doing before.

When I recently read Brad Feld’s account of the depression and issues that stemmed from his entrepreneurial drive and endeavors, I was certainly impressed by his courageous vulnerability.

However, what really struck me was how incredible of a person his wife had to be to know what his entrepreneurship was doing to him.

Dating is at best another extracurricular, number six or number seven down the list, somewhere between Model UN and intramural badminton.

I've been co-hosting young alumni events for name-brand schools for long enough to know that these kids come out a little lopsided (which sounds so much better than "socially awkward," don't you think? All they need is a little tune up, or a little dating textbook like The Tao of Dating for Women or The Tao of Dating for Men, to get them going -- plus a little practice.

Soft dates may be those we recall because they fall into the traditional category of dates to remember – but because they hold special meaning.

They may record accomplishments that make us proud – a first marathon, or first article published.

So if they had challenges then, it gets about 1,000 times worse once they're tossed from the warm womb of their alma mater. For simple things, it takes someone smart to really screw it up. Take piano, violin, tennis, swimming and Tibetan throat-singing lessons. Be "well-rounded." Well, you're a talented little bugger. At the same time, there's an opportunity cost associated with achievement.

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